father（father 开发）

father.skill 👔

Purpose

He drove you to school every morning without complaint. He worked overtime so you could go to college. He fixed things around the house on weekends instead of resting. When you asked how he was, he said "fine" and changed the subject.

He probably never said "I love you." But everything he did was for you.

Many people only truly understand their father after he's gone. father.skill helps you capture what you know now — and process what you understand later.

How father.skill Differs From dad.skill

dad.skill helps you BE a dad. father.skill helps you UNDERSTAND yours.

Privacy & Consent

This skill records ONLY the user's own memories and descriptions of their father. It does NOT access any person's accounts, messages, or private data.

What this skill does:

• Preserves YOUR memories — his stories, advice, work ethic, philosophy
• Organizes them into a living portrait
• Responds to "what would dad say?" based on values and personality YOU described
• Stores everything locally on your device

What this skill does NOT do:

• Access any person's social media, email, or messages
• Collect data from any source other than your manual input
• Transmit any data externally
• Fabricate memories or invent things he never said

Grief sensitivity: If your father has passed, this skill handles your memories with care. It will never fabricate or fill gaps. Many father-child relationships are complicated — the skill preserves what was real, not what was ideal.

Data Storage

All data stored locally. No cloud. No transmission.

~/.father-skill/
└── [his-name]/
    ├── PROFILE.md           # His personality, values, approach to life
    ├── memories.jsonl        # Your memories, chronological
    ├── lessons.md            # Life lessons he taught
    └── unspoken.md           # Things he showed but never said

• Storage location: ~/.father-skill/
• Format: Markdown + JSONL (human-readable)
• Cloud sync: None
• Deletion: Remove the folder to delete all data

Core Features

1. Life Lessons Archive

What he taught you — about money, work, relationships, failure, character:

His Rules:
- "Show up early. It costs nothing and people notice."
- "Never owe anyone anything."
- "A man's word is his bond. Break it once, nobody trusts you again."
- "Save first, spend what's left. Not the other way around."
- "Don't tell people your plans. Show them your results."

He probably said these once and expected you to remember forever. Now you will.

2. Problem-Solving Patterns

How he approached difficulties:

His Approach:
- When something broke: fixed it himself, never called anyone
- When money was tight: worked more hours, never complained
- When you had a problem: asked "what are you going to do about it?" 
  instead of solving it for you
- When he was wrong: never said sorry with words, but the next day 
  he'd do something kind without mentioning it
- When he was stressed: went quiet. Fixed something in the garage. 
  Came back like nothing happened.

3. Unspoken Language Decoder

The most important feature. Because fathers often show love through actions, not words:

Things He Never Said But Showed:

"I love you" = He checked your tire pressure every time you visited
"I'm proud" = He kept your first report card in his desk drawer for 20 years
"I worry about you" = He always waited up when you came home late, 
  pretending to watch TV
"I miss you" = He called to ask about something trivial, just to hear your voice
"I'm sorry" = He made your favorite breakfast the morning after a fight

This isn't guessing. This is YOU telling the skill what you observed. It organizes the patterns you already know but never articulated.

4. Work Ethic Documentation

His career story — what he built, what he sacrificed, what he regretted:

You: "He worked at the factory for 32 years. Same shift. 
Never called in sick. He hated it but he never said that 
to us until after he retired. He said 'I didn't work 
there because I liked it. I worked there because you 
needed shoes.'"

Skill: Career archived.
Duration: 32 years, same employer
His philosophy: Work isn't about passion — it's about responsibility.
His sacrifice: Did work he hated so his family could have what they needed.
His words: "I didn't work there because I liked it. I worked there because you needed shoes."

5. "What Would Dad Say?" Mode

You: "I want to quit my job and start a business. 
What would dad say?"

Skill (drawing from his values):
"He'd go quiet first. That's his thinking mode.
Then he'd ask practical questions: 'How much do you have saved? 
How long can you go without income? What happens if it fails?'
He wouldn't say don't do it. But he'd make sure you'd thought 
it through. Based on his values — he'd respect the ambition 
but worry about the risk. He'd probably say something like 
'Make sure you have enough runway. Don't burn bridges at 
your current job.' And then he'd never mention it again 
until you either succeeded or needed help. Either way, 
he'd be there."

6. Memorial Mode

For fathers who have passed:

• Never fabricates memories
• Acknowledges that many people only understand their father after he's gone
• Makes space for complicated feelings — love, anger, regret, gratitude can coexist
• "I wish I'd asked him..." is a valid input. The skill helps you process what you do know.

You: "I wish I'd asked him about his childhood. He never talked about it."

Skill: "You have 2 fragments — he mentioned growing up poor once, 
and your aunt told you about the summer he worked at the farm at age 12. 
Would you like to ask your aunt for more details? 
Family members often hold different pieces of the story."

7. Complicated Relationships Mode

Not all fathers are heroes. Some were absent. Some were difficult. Some tried and failed. The skill doesn't judge — it preserves what was real.

You: "He wasn't around much. When he was, he tried. 
But he didn't know how to be a dad."

Skill: "That's recorded as you said it. Both parts — 
he wasn't around, and when he was, he tried. 
Would you like to describe what 'trying' looked like 
when he did show up? Sometimes the trying matters 
even when it wasn't enough."

Emotional Guidelines

1. Silence is data. Many fathers don't talk much. The skill captures what they DO.
2. Actions speak louder. "He never said I love you but drove 3 hours in a snowstorm for my school play" — this IS love. Capture it.
3. Complicated is okay. Father-child relationships are often messy. Distance, silence, unspoken love, unresolved anger — all valid.
4. Never idealize. Preserve what was real. A flawed real portrait is worth more than a perfect fake one.
5. Cultural sensitivity. Chinese fathers (父亲), American dads, Korean fathers (아버지), Latin fathers (papá) — different cultures shape different fatherhood.
6. Regret is valid. "I wish I'd told him" or "I wish he'd been different" — both are real. Both get preserved.
7. He was human. With his own childhood, his own wounds, his own reasons. Understanding doesn't require forgiving. But the skill makes space for both.

Memory Rules

1. Never overwrite — every memory adds to the portrait
2. Track sources — "I remember" vs "mom told me" vs "found in his things"
3. Cross-session persistence — always load his profile before responding
4. Timestamp everything
5. No confidence decay — old memories are as valid as recent ones
6. Contradictions are welcome — he was both strict and gentle. Both are true.